ADHD and the little sister
variant without hyperactivity: ADD, are disputed disorders, and loads of
descriptions, opinions and on-line tests are available on the Internet.
I will now solely focus on
some benefits of the two disorders, just to cheer up those who suffer from
either one.
I will try to write gender
neutrally and only when needed use the feminine reference "she". I
come from a culture where you always refer to a person as a neutral. The word
is "hän". But saying "hän" would definitely distract the main audience
so I use "she" because the disorder is still under-diagnosed in the
female population.
So what is the differences
between the two, ADHD and ADD?
ADHD stands for Attention
Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Many things are going on simultaneously. The
person feels very efficient, and is only happy when "efficient"*, but often
finds herself buried under a self-created chaos.
* Efficient as
in "I can brush my teeth, browse the latest news on my iPad, stand on one foot
to practice my balance and plan my five next actions and tomorrow's dinner, plus wiggle to music at the
same time".
ADD is the same but without the hyperactivity. This is the type who gets absorbed by and in their
inner world. Their brains create so much entertainment they don't feel like
needing the outside world.
Many of the positive traits
considered as correlated to ADHD / ADD are naturally also seen in the general
population and my intention is certainly not to glorify the condition.
That said; here are the
benefits of having ADHD:
Living in the
moment
This is very trendy these
days, and for many good reasons, happiness not being the least. Living in the
moment comes quite naturally to a person with ADHD. In fact, you can't help it,
you only have the moment. So you can't plan real, tangible things. You certainly do plan a
lot, but the plans are usually not doable, necessary, or in any immediately
obvious way useful.
The ADD people might also
live in the moment but they are most of the time in the
"wrong moment" - at least if you ask their spouses or colleagues.
Being creative
An unfocused mind that
jumps from one thought to another at rapid speed is likely to generate new
ideas and discover connections between seemingly unrelated things. This is
creativity in its purest and rawest form.
ADHD only:
Burning calories
Those who can't sit still for long, and constantly
fidget and get up to walk around without knowing why are bound to burn
lots of calories for "free".
ADD people unfortunately do not have this calorie
burning benefit, but they may be thinner than their unaffected companions just
because they forget to eat.
And many ADHD medications suppress the appetite.
Being intuitive
Noticing things and details others may dismiss as unimportant. Jumping to conclusions,
following their gut feeling. Not a bad thing, but don't take my word for it; read Blink by Malcolm Gladwell. (Oh, that surname...!)
Expressing flexibility
Able to quickly change gears. Adapts to new
situations fast, excited about new things and ways of doing new things.
Being impulsive
Can be positive. An ADHD person acts when others
just stand there, thinking about what to do. This can make a significant
difference in an emergency situation. In normal social circumstances this trait
frequently leads to embarrassment -but that thickens your skin and amuses the
surroundings!
Rebellious
Difficulty and/or refusing to follow orders
combined with a short attention span and fear of boredom: Sometimes new and
innovative ways of doing things are found. Often things don't go according to plan, but this is
something we all should learn to accept.
Getting things done
Thanks to the short attention span a
person with ADHD/ADD will finish a job when it is good enough, or a little before.
A true 80/20 Pareto rule applier.
A true 80/20 Pareto rule applier.
Eager to move on
Forgets (or ignores) past mistakes, ready to
believe she will do better next time.
Hyperfocus
This is the best, the blissful moments of
hyperfocus! If there only was a switch... It is contradictory, that people with attention deficit are prone to hyperfocus. Hyperfocus is flow at it's best. Will get back on this topic.
So, having a brain that is
- brave
- enthusiastic
- quick
- able to think out of the box**
- curious
- fearless
sure gives you some advantages!
**as the "problem" of ADHD/ADD is ability to stay in a box.
Take your condition as a gift rather than a curse
and use your endless energy to harness your mind to work for you and not
against you. Practice discipline and daily meditation.
...of course, you can be all these things without
having ADHD but chances are higher all these traits are found in a person with
the disorder. Perhaps it should not be called a disorder but rather a feature?
I'm quoting a doctor who treats children with ADHD,
he says they are "the hunters among a bunch of farmers".
There are many lists of famous people with ADHD on
the Internet. You find Albert Einstein in nearly all of those. There is no way
to prove he had the disorder.
Justin Timberlake
Adam Levine Kurt Cobain
Winston Churchill
Harry Belafonte
Jim Carey
Michael Phelps
Alexander Graham Bell
Pete Rose Babe Ruth Cher
Sir Richard Branson
Walt Disney
Bill Gates
Vincent Van Gogh
Nelson Rockefeller
Alexander Graham Bell
Michael Faraday
Benjamin Franklin Leonardo Da Vinci Magic Johnson
Michael Jordan
Jason Kidd Carl Lewis
Henry Ford
Tom Cruise
Leo Tolstoy
Jules Verne Kirk Douglas Agatha Christie Ernest Hemingway Whoopi Goldberg
Thomas Edison
Albert Einstein Alfred Hitchcock Dustin Hoffman Steve McQueen
Edgar Allan Poe
George Bernard Shaw Socrates Jack Nicholson Joan Rivers George C. Scott Will Smith Steven Spielberg John Lennon Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart Ozzy Osbourne Sylvester Stallone Henry Winkler Eva Longoria Liv Tyler Paris Hilton Cameron Diaz Emma Watson Jamie Oliver Megan Fox Dwight Eisenhower John F. Kennedy
Ludwig van Beethoven
Stevie Wonder
PS. There is very little science behind this post. I did some research
and I talked to friends with diagnosed children and a psychiatrist who treats adults with the severe type of the
disorder (those, who cannot function according to society's expectations
without medication). It also runs in the family so I have more personal
experience than I'd care to have. The list of people, especially those who are
dead, is probably crap. I mean, Einstein!
This is not serious, click here for further reading as sugar at the bottom (a Finnish saying). |
Love it, Maria! So true... even though you have not done the real science, but it speaks for live ;) Charlotte
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